Thursday, December 27, 2012

What makes you H U M A N ??





Understanding a human being in today’s time is difficult. TRUST which is considered to be the biggest bridge in connecting individuals is shattering down.

This heavy word ‘Trust’ these days could be related with familial relations, friendship bonds, relatives, neighbours, to even government responsibilities, our maids/cleaners to even with a fruit/veg seller.

Trust breaks when the government we elect have no dedication towards the nation.


Trust breaks when people misunderstanding something, cause hatred and revenge, rather than talk with each other.


Trust breaks when the police show indifferent and unruly behavior


Trust breaks when our cricketers or any sportsperson plays for his/her vested interest


Trust breaks when a teacher shows partiality


Trust breaks when a doctor treats themselves as businessman and their patients as clients


It breaks when an educational institution charges extra fees minus the signatory receipt for proof.


It breaks when in a school competition, only one team leads the school and other students are not given a chance to learn to play minus the ‘competition’.


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But one thing is for sure that Life really teaches us to grow in the form of experience(s), which makes us wiser, down -to -earth and which definitely makes the way for reaching enlightenment.


Human behaviour has become so rude, intolerant and selfish. 


I have seen people who can go to any limits to get the other person down


I have seen friends who feel proud in backstabbing others, and the surprising thing is that, they never reflect upon their behaviour, never ever and thinks their behaviour is correct. 


Then there are losers and cowards who never come in front to help their friends in need or at the time of action. These people have the power to talk, and talk , only talk, but there ‘Words’ show how feeble-minded these person can be.


And I am really FORGIVING you all people who made me hurt at some point in life. I am not the Judge of your ‘Karmas’. They belong to you. Thanks for inscribing few lessons that have taught me the value of celebrating Life much more:)



Then there are people who talk of women empowerment. But when the time comes, they are the ones who back them away, like for example –

 (I came across this following thing in my FB, posted by one of my friend)

You stay silent when your friend takes dowry from his wife's family,


You stay silent when your classmates sits at a nukkad whistling 'maal' at passing women saying it is innocent fun, 


You stay silent when a million women every year in this nation are murdered before birth 


You stayed silent when your boss hit upon a female colleague and you told her to grin and bear it because it happens everywhere,


You did not protest the lower pay that your female colleagues got just because of their sex,


You stayed silent when in a family discussion a woman’s voice was silenced by the cacophony of male voices,


You force a woman to wear burqa, 


You stay silent when females in a party are sent away to discuss 'childish' things even as you discuss 'important' things like politics and all in their absence,


You objected loudly when your girlfriend, wife wanted to put her life and career ahead of yours saying yours was more important.


And now suddenly you have become a man because ONE woman was brutally beaten and raped while you conveniently forget the hundreds of women.


Thanks to the serpent of your awakened manhood, that woman in Delhi will perhaps get justice. But what about the millions of other women in the country of different religion, region and sect united by their shared injustice who will perhaps never get justice precisely for the same reason - your manhood?



It’s been rightly said that family is your first ‘School’ and parents as the first teacher. When the foundation is strong with Values, nobody can ever, can ever touch your base. A child when interacts with the society, he/she find so many things that shake their mind, their mentality, behaviour, and their actions.


These above things also make an impact if the country’s governance is weak or strong, its laws are for the people or just a mockery of affairs just as the term ‘Entertainment ‘ nowadays defines itself,  even sometimes to fool people around.


The recent gang rape of a girl in Delhi bus makes our judiciary a mockery in itself. The persons involved in such brutal act have shown the world their low class mentality and their actions have turned them into demons. The way they escaped shows how coward they are. Later when arrested, they confessed that they had committed a heinous crime.


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People are - 

Escaping away from responsibilities
Breaking trust
Showing indecency
Using foul language
… and are spreading anger, hatred, cruelty and intolerance at every level. One cannot break the souls of pure -beings. The momentum can be just temporary but in the end it will break You down. 
Show compassion towards others and yourself in terms of thinking and behaving both. 


It should be only the Human Mind that needs to be in Control. That is the need of the world. When your mind is in control, your heart sings. Do good deeds, love everyone, take responsibilities, change bad attitude, and then only your true personality will come out. 

Be yourself, do not fake what you are not, behave properly, and never try to judge others. HAVE FAITH in the One who has created you as a human being. Be thankful of possessing a human body where you are able to use the mind to attain higher forms of knowledge. That is the true way to be coming OUT OF THE SHELL.

God has made our brains on the top floor of our body. So stop fooling others around you and yourself. Be the beautiful soul of God and then you’ll learn to capture the messages and miracles. This will be your test result.


                                                    BE HUMAN not INHUMAN



|| yada yada hi dharmasya

  glanir bhavati bharata
  abhyutthanam adharmasya
  tadatmanam srjamy aham ||

Meaning: wherever there is decline of righteousness, O Bharata, and a rise of unrighteousness, at that time I take birth in the World.



P.S. – Try to remember Draupadi’s episode in ‘Mahabharata’